Often times we confuse having healthy boundaries and in doing so we put up walls. Walls keep everything and everyone out and locks you within. That ends up being a very lonely place where you are locked inside, unable to connect with others because the wall is made of brick. Boundaries are like drawbridges - they are changeable; you get to decide who gets to cross over. You decide when the bridge is open and when it is closed. It is a boundary that allows you to invite others in or say no with Love.
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4/10/2015 12:24:30 pm
Thank you Wilika, this picture of putting up a drawbridge instead of a wall makes all the sense in the world!
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